“doing her own thing” . . .
Well, here’s a secret to life I heard in passing today:
“do your own thing (informal)”
“to do exactly what you want without following what other people do or worrying about what they think.
you have to give your children a certain amount of freedom to do their own thing.”
I’m really good at the first part, the second, not so much. But from now on, I get it!